Negative thoughts seem to follow the path of least resistance. When our minds go into neutral, they automatically tend to flow toward our normal thinking patterns, whether negative or positive. If we try to stop thinking about something, it creates a space and our minds go right back to what we were just thinking about. It seems like there is no escape.
But you can choose to do some mental house cleaning. And your brain is also the solution. You can’t simply try to stop thinking about negative people or situations…you have to replace those thoughts. You have to consciously choose other things to fill your mind with. At first the negative thoughts will try to creep back in because they have been there for so long. But when that happens you can turn that into a trigger to again fill your mind with truth.
Yet trying to think of new response when you are in the middle of an emotion is like putting the cart before the horse. You have to begin by thinking through the process before the emotion hits you.
Here are some tips for changing your thinking: [Read more…] about Clutter Busting: Mental House Cleaning